She proceeded to tell me that she essentially dumped her male friend of several years because her ex lover didn't want her friend around. Because he was immature and wanted all of her attention and time directed to him, and not to the long standing friendship she had that predated him.
How many people have gone through this? Too many to count.
You're in a friendship, one that has been active for years. You spend your time with them, talk to them daily, and ultimately are around your friend to the point you adopt parts of their personality, their tiny quirks or sayings, and they adopt some of yours. But then, they get a lover, and soon enough they don't talk to you as often, you can't seem to find a time to hang out because they're always conveniently "busy" or when you do make a time to meet they cancel last minute, you play third wheel when you hang out because they decided to bring their lover without telling you, or they completely fall off of the face of the earth and they go totally silent and you do not hear from them or see them at all. The only time you see your "friend" is when you accidentally bump into them or see them on the street.
These are friends.
These are your friends.
These are my friends.
These are the world's friends.
In the spiritual circles are roam in, many people have been discussing the "Event". Here is a bit about it:
What is the Event?
The REAL Awakening: The Event
I have previously discussed that the Earth and it's inhabitants will be ascending into the vibrational point of the 5th Dimension. An awakening of the consciousness of all of Earth and Gaia in general, an awareness that the human race has yet to achieve on a massive scale.
But, some will not make it.
Do not be afraid, this is not going to be some destructive rapture where people will be physically dying- this is going to be an internal death. The death and destruction of old ways, paradigms, thought patterns, and ideologies that once held the human mind enslaved. But some will resist this advancement- they will want to remain on the 3rd dimension, and chained to the old way of life.
Your friends.
My friends.
The whole world's friends.
Fake friends.
These people you will have to leave behind, for where we are headed, they do not serve or benefit you. With the rise of the Event is the death of the old, the false, and the non beneficial. Your friends, your fake friends, "friends". The people who feed off of your energy when it is only convenient for them, the people who cling to you in jealousy, one sided loyalty, the friends who dump you for the short lived romance of another, those friends who swing back into your life when their lover leaves them as high and dry as they left you. These aren't friends- they are leeches, parasites.
Now is the time to make true connections- connections that serve not only to better you, but give you true lasting fulfillment. As cheesy as it sounds, friendships can last a lifetime. They are truly precious.
The time of fake friendships are over.
No more new fake friends.
I did the tarot reading for my client, and the cards were clear- her friend was hurt by her abandonment, how she tossed out years of friendship for a new lover, and that he ultimately knew how she felt about their friendship. She didn't truly value their friendship because she was so willing to toss it out so quickly, years of friendship tossed out of the window in a few weeks for a boyfriend who ended up being a fuckboy who cheated on her and ran off after more pretty girls in skirts. She was so insistent on knowing if her friend would come back to her- so desperate for the connection that she so eagerly dumped. Because, she wanted that convenience of an open door policy, she wanted that comfort, that crutch, that familiarity- no matter how one sided it was for her. But, I told her point blank- he has moved on, he no longer wants to be your "friend". She then proceeded to tell me she wrote him a love letter, told him she loved him.
She "loved" him.
She tossed him in the trash as a friend, imagine what she would do to him as a lover when another better man comes around.
She only realized her love for him when he was gone, she only realized the deeper love for him once he was gone and her fuckboy used her up and left her.
The sheer arrogance,
The sheer entitlement,
The sheer ignorance to her own actions.
A few days later she told me her friend messaged her on social media, only to block her completely.
Crossing her out of his life. I told her that she has to deal with the consequence of her actions, that she needs to realize that this is a lesson for her to keep in mind. I could tell that's not what she wanted to hear, but it was the truth and it isn't always pleasant to swallow.
Death to fake friends.
They do not serve you, your journey, or any form of benefit to you.
Fake friends will not survive in the 5th dimension, better clean them out of your life now before they try to pull you down to the 3rd dimension, keeping you in a limbo of old paradigm and outdated lifestyle.
Get rid of them, before they ruin you.
Choose your family of friends wisely, don't be afraid to cut them off if they are one sided. Fake friends can take you on a years long detour in life, or worse.
Choose wisely.
Xoxo,
Erytheia
Erytheia Medea©
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